Paige,
What a jerk! That is what I mean about cold psychiatrists. Anyone in their write mind would know that just mentioning EST out of the blue in a noncomforting way is just lousy.
You might want to ask her about it if you do no think it will upset her too much. But I would want to know why she was uncomfortable. Just reassure her that you would never make her go through any therapy that she was uncomfortable with and she should not be scared of you making her.
You can call the jerk if you want to but you probably will not get far. He had every right to mention something to her. Just because he should not have does not mean he did anything wrong. Sucks huh?

Stay strong,
Jessica

You are in this snowglobe. It is encovered in glass and secure. But one day someone comes and shakes the globe and the pieces go flying everywhere. Now they will eventually settle but they won't be the way they were before and they can never be that way again.