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Originally Posted by sconnie892
I sure hope the yo-yos get easier....
I was really upset with T after that session, but now after a few days I am settling back down. I am trying to think about it from her perspective and what she might have been trying to accomplish. I know she did it for a good reason. Now I just need to work up the nerve to say how hard that last session was for me....I know it wasn't all her...I got really resistant about half way through and really fought against what she was saying (I just didn't see it as resistance during the session.)
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Gah, I'm really empathizing with you about dealing with a difficult session. I calmed down off and on between sessions, but when I went back I was still expecting I'd be on the edge of walking out halfway though. (He was over the top nice and that worry went away pretty quick after we started talking.) I think you're doing good to trust she was doing it for a good reason, and to try to tell her how hard it was, and not to assume it was all either you or her.