Hello,
I have this problem that I have had with relationships for as long as I can remember. I need to be with the person I am dating whenever I can. If they are not at work or sleeping I feel like I need to be with them or I feel abandoned and devastated. I have no idea why this is so and I struggle with it everyday.
It has gotten better. I am with a great guy now and we are getting engaged soon but everyday I fight to know that if he has something to do it does not reflect on how he feels about me.
Why am I doing this? What is wrong with me? It is so frustrating and I feel like it is destroying me.

Jessica

You are in this snowglobe. It is encovered in glass and secure. But one day someone comes and shakes the globe and the pieces go flying everywhere. Now they will eventually settle but they won't be the way they were before and they can never be that way again.