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Old Mar 02, 2012, 03:11 AM
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Originally Posted by bazza12 View Post
I kind of eluded that something was wrong, but that's it really. He had no idea what happened. I just told him that the day had been really bad, but that I didn't want to talk about it. And my T just said that in the future, if I wanted to talk about it, he'd be there and not forget that I'd mentioned that. I think it helped me in that moment, because I didn't feel pressure to tell him anything, but it also seemed like he cared which kind of brought me some sort of relief. I still feel alone about it too, though. I haven't said anything about it, (been about two weeks) but he's been really good about everything. And I think it'll go alright when I do decide to tell him what's happened because we've kind of built up a different kind of rapport with each other. So I think it's slowly helping me, and will probably help even more when I actually tell him. What about you though? Did you tell your T what happened or did you not say anything? If you haven't yet, maybe you could just tell him or her that something's up but you don't know what to do? Or how to discuss or go about the situation, etc.? Just a suggestion. Let me know how it goes.
Do you think you will tell your T what happened 2 weeks ago? Or is it still too painful? I didn't tell T what happened but T knew straight away something was up, I don't cry in our appointments. T kept asking if something bad had happened and if it had happened that day but all I could do was nod. The problem is I've never talked about events leading up to this either so I'm not sure I can just blurt it out. It's easier not to say it out loud then I can pretend it's not real. Bazza I hope you find the courage to tell your T