@JLarissaDragon yes I think has some self esteem issues after being out of work for so long, he does feel inadequate for being so passive, but i think he has stopped trying, i think it is typical thing in such situations, it is a state he has got himself into and now cant get out of, but if he just explored mor possibilities just any job would be good not only for our finances , but for his psychological wellbeing too i think.