Fuzzybear,
We all feel judge and put under a microscope at one time or another..... but it is those that judge that really needs the help.... I could never judge for I have NEVER been in your shoes, but I walk in my shoes and they have been bad enough and they have caused me some quilt and shame, therefore, I shall not permit another to take my place.
I am always open for private PM if you need to talk (and) I promise to NEVER judge, but to only HELP!!
LoVe,
Rhapsody -