Yes.... YOU made plenty of sense and I do agree that they (males) need time to maul it over before it can or will sink in - and I do have to say that it is more with my sons (ages: 21 & 16) than with my husband.... my husband is 90% better than he ever was before and you can't beat those odds.
So, ladies how do you deal with your children when they are not quite getting it.... that their male ways are hurting their mother. ? ? ? ?

LoVe,
Rhapsody -