I kind of feel the same.
I'm pretty young, but then I get nervous when I think of having sex with someone too. I can't even handle having a relationship with a guy. I also get painful orgasms as well, but I think that's due to the Voices.

I'm not sure how I'd react, but I'd guess if it makes you anxious you could always talk to a therapist. If you really want to stay a virgin, then you could always do that to.

I know that I might stay a virgin for a long time.