It's OK. I wasn't offended by the word bully.

I agree- you are not under anyone else's "care". You have the responsibility to care for yourself. That is your own full time job. It's my job (or a t's, or a lawyer's, or a plumber's) to provide an expert opinion. You pay for me for my advice or recommendation. Then, you make your own decision. The end.

On the other hand, just to set the record straight. I do care about my patients. I care a lot, and I can't help but feel some measure of responsibility and personal concern for them. If I didn't, I would find another job. Maybe plumbing.