
(((tigergirl)))
Getting any feeling that I need to care for my T is a Red Flag for me. I'm there
for ME, so if I find myself directing energy into
--holding back
--telling half-truths
--understating the seriousness of an issue
--understating my pain
then I have to consider this possibility:
Even if T is good, this is
not a good T
for me.
Maybe you'd want to give this some thought, TG? Because I think everyone has agreed that the answer to your question is
NO.
Roadie