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Old Mar 03, 2012, 02:36 AM
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Originally Posted by tigergirl View Post
to reassure T's that we are ok? when, we aren't
Acting like I'm fine is stg I do 24/7. Only with my T I can be honest about my feelings. I need that to that extent that I've convinced myself that nothing I do/say can hurt my T. I'm selfish in therapy (sorry T ). He does say he can manage and it is not my job to take care about him/ his feelings. So that makes it easier for me.