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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
How are you doing now TG?
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Hanging on, thanks soup
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Originally Posted by Roadie
 (((tigergirl)))
Getting any feeling that I need to care for my T is a Red Flag for me. I'm there for ME, so if I find myself directing energy into
--holding back
--telling half-truths
--understating the seriousness of an issue
--understating my pain
then I have to consider this possibility:
Even if T is good, this is not a good T for me.
Maybe you'd want to give this some thought, TG? Because I think everyone has agreed that the answer to your question is NO.
Roadie
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thanks Roadie, i'm going to think about this. I wonder if I'd do it with any T though rather than it being specific with him
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Originally Posted by anilam
Acting like I'm fine is stg I do 24/7. Only with my T I can be honest about my feelings. I need that to that extent that I've convinced myself that nothing I do/say can hurt my T. I'm selfish in therapy (sorry T  ). He does say he can manage and it is not my job to take care about him/ his feelings. So that makes it easier for me. |
How did you convince yourself? I find it really hard, that my job is to take care of his feelings because that's what I do, but then after the last session i just wanted to not do it anymore and felt I had to
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Originally Posted by earthmamma
Why do you ask?
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Because I wanted to know