I love watching the sunset- it makes me feel an appreciation for the beauty and complexity of the natural world. If I happen to be sharing the moment with another person, I feel closer to them because of a shared experience. God didn't make that happen- the spinning of the planet combined with currrent meteorological conditions made it happen.
Same with t. I think she is a good person, I think she has put a lot of time and energy into mastering her profession. I think our work together makes me a better person. I think our ability as human beings to do this work is amazing and evidence of complex evolutionary and societal inputs. I don't think that either one of us are puppets on a string being manipulated by another entity. I think that way of interpreting our (or any) relationship actually cheapens it.
Thankfully, all of us are allowed our own interpretations and the opportunity to discuss them.