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Originally Posted by lostmyway21
I just thought it was interesting to add that I emailed my T this morning, and said I was worried because I thought he was mad at me for something I said to him yesterday. He said, "I'm NOT mad, I do NOT get mad at you, I am your therapist." I guess that clears things up a bit.
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That is so interesting! My therapist said the opposite when I questioned whether he would ever get mad at me, and what would happen if he did. He said, "Of course I'm going to get mad at you at some point. We have a relationship and no relationship is perfect, and no two people ever go through their entire lives without making each other angry. When we get angry at each, we're going to talk about it and work through it." And that response was really reassuring to me. Because I KNOW that I piss people off sometimes. I want to know someone isn't just going to ditch me, or use my private information against me just because I've made a mistake, or made them angry.