Thank you every one for the help,its so nice to have a place i can go to to talk about this,and to have so many nice ppl that will listen to me, i'm sorry that i don't reply to others posts. i want you all to know i read all of them,and want to reply to them, i just don't feel i would be of any help to any one right now,because my out look on T's are not good, i hope you all will understand, Thank you all again,and for the safe place