Thank u for the advice and your right I do need to keep looking forward I really feel like crying now because I realize I became her dad by being over protective and not listening as much as I should have. For example before all this we had gotten into a bad argument and told me I needed to go to therapy I didn't have the money nor did my school provide them and I looked online for help but found nothing before so I talked to my mom.but she feels that it wasn't enough or I didn't try as hard and yesterday when I tried to explain she started crying and cursing me out. To the point where she doesn't want to at least be friends.shes always thrown the bad things in my face even in arguments so I tried to. Tell her all the good and the things I have done to help her but it only got a negative reaction.i beat myself up cause I know that her dad throws a lot of stuff in her face and I really wasn't trying too but I guess she felt like I was and made her stop talking to me. I never wanted to hurt her everything I did or tried to do was to help her or benefit her into making her life happy but I guess I did it in the wrong way.