While the first time can be a bit scary and you will probably feel some apprehension. Intercourse is supposed to be pleasurable not painful. I would first see a gynecologist and determine if you have a physical/medical issue. The site on WebMD that Callmebj included may be really helpful. Anyway I would try to get to the bottom of this. Finally I would never suggest that you jump in the sack with just anybody to get it over with. As a woman God made you a beautiful creature and you deserve the best and a compassionate loving relationship in which to find fulfillment