If someone feels better because a stranger uses the word care, then good for them.i am not going to tell another person their idea of comfort is wrong. It is different from mine, but not wrong for them.

And it is good no one on either side is compelled to deal with another whom they find repugnant in the world of therapy. I will not be taken care of, but for those of you who seek care, I hope you find it and it helps.