Hi MDD, sorry i deleted my original post - i was going over and over in my head about wether or not what i was saying was relevant. I think Summeryoga put it clearly and concisely however and Towanda, as ever, made some very good points. I really wish i could have been more conclusive in what i wanted to say. My head is a bit of a fog right now so im more unhelpful than usual! Really hope you get this matter resolved - ill be thinking of you, stay safe hun