I grew up with a need to please. And in fact, when my current T wanted me to going into a group T setting in addition to seeing her, I really had to examine if I was going for her, or going for me. In the beginning I was going for her, to please her, to make her proud of me, but as the group went on, it turned into going for me. I think that you should talk to your psych about this, and if you can't speak up about it, then print this post and bring it. Perhaps as you move forward with your treatment, you can examine these things and perhaps it will help you.