My boyfriend doesn't focus on me when he's on the computer, either. He goes to work and then comes home and plays games and stuff on the computer, usually. I know how that feels. But he doesn't tell me I make him depressed. Your husband blaming you for his depression is wrong. He's being manipulative and not taking responsibility. He needs to talk to a psychologist or psychiatrist. And I think you two could benefit from marriage counseling. But if he refuses to get help, you can't do anything about that. You can only help yourself, and give him what help he allows. Don't blame yourself for his depression.