yeah, he really did, Velcro. I was like ummmmmmm, yes and NO and can we talk about something else??? Later I kept kicking myself that I didn't say, "YOU FIRST! Do you?" LOL. Still not that bold. He told me the next time that his point was that I was sending my husband mixed signals and men think that if they are getting sex all is well in their world. I responded, "Or maybe that's just you?" He laughed but said, "No. It's a guy thing."