Do you think you can locate another T just to talk about your feelings for your current T? Would you be comfortable doing that or would you feel like you're being dishonest with your T if you don't tell her? I still think it's best to tell your T and ask her if she thinks it would help you to talk to someone else about this particular issue. I do think that all issues are related, though--so it might be like starting over and you don't want to do that!