Thanks, hankster. My H isn't interested in, you know, anymore. He never was that much and now he's older so it's worse. He'd kill me if he knew I was writing this! I'm trying for just touching which I want too. I want intimacy; he wants to read the news online. Yes, I trust him. He's not into anything like porn. We're trying to do more fun things together, like go places. He's retired so he's home a lot, but he likes to sleep.