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Originally Posted by shezbut
Very nice to hear that you care about your MIL and what she's gone through in life. Seems to be such a rare thing nowadays with elders. So, kudos to you and your family!
It is also great to hear that your MIL doesn't have to worry about her children's financial well-being. That's a big relief.
One of the biggest challenges that your MIL is facing is depression. Encouraging her to go in for at least medical treatment, maybe even counseling, would have a great impact on her well-being. I am sure of that.
Have you considered the possibility of seeing if your MIL may be interested in moving? I only ask because it doesn't sound as though she's real connected with the home. She may see it more as her late-husband's, and not feel a warm connection to it. Whereas the basement holds a place in her heart. It's possible that it would be a relief for your MIL to have an entire house, that holds momento's and isn't a health risk.
That's my input. I wish your family the best & hope that you're able to bring some happiness back into your MIL's life. She does deserve it!
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Thank you for your insights.
Moving is not really an option, she simply has too much that she cannot part with and she does not have the means to buy a larger house.
I agree with your perceptions with regards to certain areas of the house being seen as still "his" even some time after his passing. So she will have to reclaim the space room by room. Last night we helped with some new decoration for the living room. Her eargerness to work on making these changes is a good sign.