it's the quality of the posts..not the number that counts....it's not a contest to see who gets the highest number in the shortest time.

to me wrong would be if you are feeling fine & then they say we are going away & then all of a sudden you say.."oh i don't feel well" in a bit of a drama queen kind of thing to get them to stay home with you...more for attention rather then out of true actual need.

if you are in actual distress that is totally different. then by all means let them know. i am sure they would rather stay & keep you safe than to get a call while they are away that something terrible happened.

& as someone else mentioned if you feel at risk now, please make a call to your dr, t or a crisis line.