Why was the original question directed to believers? I am an atheist, but would like to say, like Chopin99, this brand new never before felt experience with unconditional love is quite compelling. If someone forced me to believe, I would choose T's religion, simply because that is my experience with unconditional love--it has been my T. I don't attribute this to "god working through T" or anything (nor does she), but I also don't close myself off to most things; if unconditional love = God....the back door is open. I might even manage to offer a cup of tap water (no time for cooking, etc.)