Yes, slowly. I told T just a bitty-bit about a month ago; just a teeny-tiny bit. And I thought I was going to throw up, pass out, maybe die. I couldn't look at T and blurted it out. And it was okay. And of course I freaked out the next day and had to call her. . And so far, that has been it. I don't want to tell her more right now and she isn't pushing me.

((Granite)) It will be okay, and you will tell her however much you want to tell her when you are ready.