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Originally Posted by granite1
THINGS IM SCARED OF
feeling all those feelings again when i realized this wasnt ok
what will T think of me and my part in it
will it make any difference in how i can function at all in life if i talk about it
T-reaction,i dont know what i want from T in telling her.i dont want her to be completely repulse by me ,i dont want her to be OMG that is horrible either.i dont want her to not react either i dont know what i want and what if her reaction makes things worse.
what if speaking it makes things worse.
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Can you share this part with T? Can you tell her you're scared of feeling those feelings again? Can you ask her how it will make a difference in your life? Can you ask her if she's worked with CSA victims before and what she thought about them?
Can you ask her if by talking about CSA it won't just make it worse?
Sharing our fears with T BEFORE we disclose, I believe, is essential.