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Originally Posted by suzzie
(granite---does this make you feel she is not intrested at all)no. she keeps backing off because she can see i cant handle it. and she doesnt want to push too much. she told me this. im too afraid of this stuff. and she said she being very careful. i wonder about the feelings around it too. they seem huge. hope you will be able to tell your t a small bit. 
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mt T talked to me a long time ago about trust and the fact that i can set the paceand go slow and that she doesnt want to retraumitize me by going to fast or something like that. i think that scared me because i had never heard of anything like that