Wow. I'll be sure to follow how you are doing. I am struggling with the same type of situation -- staying in the house together when my husband says he wants to leave. He put a deposit on a townhouse that won't be complete until August. It is March 4th! I am trying to focus on taking care of myself, being a better person. Just struggling with when is enough enough? It's a good idea to get some personal counseling, if you haven't already. It helps to have a different perspective than your own or your spouse's. Keep us posted and hang in there -- Jaime