What you said -- but applied to *my* T, whom I also lost recently because of out of state moves on both our parts.

I found out he was leaving on a Friday, and cried the entire weekend following. But by the time our last meeting came up, we had worked it out bit by bit so that it wasn't so horrible. We reminisced and joked around for 45 minutes, had a good hug and a few tears, and wished each other well, and there it was.

I quit therapy too, and it's not so bad!

Sorry, didn't mean to hijack your thread, just wanted you to know I know exactly what you're going through. PM if you need me.

Love, Candy