I am experiencing similar trust issues at the moment. My wife just came clean the other day that she had been talking to another women.. To most I don't think it is too big a deal but to me it was pretty bad.. Just the circumstances. She said she had started having "emotions" for this other girl.. she says she is done and that she has cut ties.. and I believe her and want to trust her. But it is hard to get back to that place. I donotthink me and my.partner were ever to that place ever. But I love her. And nothing is going to come between us... Just comes down to.. u willing to put your heart ut there again or are you done.. a relationship without trust is not very good in my oppion..