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Mar 05, 2012, 06:36 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Did he do a complete 180 after you married? I mean, did he smoke pot before you married? Was he good about keeping a job before marriage? Why do you think he's acting like this now? 
Your first concern should be about this baby that's coming. You're not going to be able to support HIM and that baby too!  If he isn't willing to get a job, then get out. It's not fair for you to be taking care of the baby and working full time too! And you CAN'T leave the baby with a pot head. Besides, after the baby is born, you're gonna need to take some time off work to recover from the birth. Sounds like you'll need your family.
If the counseling hasn't been working, I think I'd start packing to go home. You're going to need your family when the baby is born. I'm sure you'll be able to find a job back home after you're able to work again. It doesn't sound like he's willing to work things out right now. If he decides he wants to later, he'll come find you. But right now, he's being a jerk.
I wish you the best of luck. Take care & God bless. Hugs, Lee
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