Thank you Stopdog & Hope-Full. Yes, it seems none of us is really feeling the pain, perhaps? You both speak of sounding robot-like or intellectualizing the pain. I do cry when I talk of it ..tho that doesnt seems to be enough for her. I really appreciate you reaching out to me on these forums as I seem so alone in whats going on in therapy -- the mystery of it all --of what she is wanting from me.

I feel less alone, bless you for that! * Gentle hugs to you both, if that's ok.