"Skysblue, we need to talk about your excessive phone calls to me and how you're breaking every boundary that needs to be erected between T and client. You have no idea how much your constant calling is intrusive and I need to make it clear what is acceptable and what is not acceptable in regards to out of session contact with me."

I understand that this was not the point of OP since T did not ask a question AND she did not really say what I've attributed to her. That was the 'translation' I heard and it just about kicked me in the gut.

She is actually very kind and empathic and compassionate but my dysfunctional 'hearing' had me react to something that really was not said. So, again, although not a question it WAS the scariest thing T has ever said to me (even though she really didn't say it)