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Originally Posted by stopdog
1. They tried to raise me that way - and it worked with parents but I grew up thinking I would not let anyone else do it to me.
2. Haha.
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I feel the same way. I was a compliant child when I needed to be, which included not being angry at my parents, but as an adult I don't want to be afraid of anger. Anger is a normal human emotion, and if I'm angry at my T, I let her know. I might use rude language or a sarcastic tone, in a perfect world I'd explain why I'm angry in the same way that I calmly explain anything else, but that doesn't usually happen.