So I've tried the T route in the past, and it was helpful for getting some perspective and guidance, and all 3 T's were real great, we clicked. ( ok ok, I mentioned that to clarify I have T experience and not completely in the dark )

I've noticed a few T orientated threads, not the actual therapy ones, I'm talking bout eye-colour, books, you know, personal stuff. Please note I said personal,not private, so please don't misunderstand So my question is:

What's with the fixation on your T and do you think it's healthy?

Ok, that's 2 questions. Sorry to be nosey, but I just don't get it and would like to understand...