just had a phone call fron the cab bloke (citizens advice) , the man contacted my employer he was told hes not allowed to attend with us, now im dreding going to this meeting , they talk to you as if your are a bit of dirt on there shoe, i have to make sure the meeting is properlly minuted ,so we can take a copy back to cab if we lodge a appeal they will need a copy, i have a list of questions that i need answers for i am not feeling very capable at the moment about being able to do this bit to clear my name i have to go forward or else im letting him win and i will be letting my family and work collegue down, i am meeting with work collegue tomorrow to go over these questions ,
i am really scared at the moment.