Thanks everyone for the input. Sounds like everyone here pretty much has limited contact for the most part.

I'm just trying to get this process straight in my head and I think her indirect answer frustrated me.

I do know intellectually that she has a life and can not attend to me 24/7, but the ache/pain in me doesn't seem to realize that. I also know that she has to set boundaries and take care of herself. There's just this part of me that doesn't seem to understand or get it.