Thread: how could i??
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Old Mar 06, 2012, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted by pbutton View Post
Granite, I've noticed that I often get from my T exactly what I expect to get from him. T's are so blank and waiting to follow the path that we lead them on.

If I go in thinking that he is going to be nice, we will have conversation, and get along well, that is exactly what happens. When I go in anxious, afraid that I won't be able to talk, that is exactly what happens. If I expect him to be nice, that is what I see. If I am afraid, I see danger. I'm pretty sure he's exactly the same both times, it's all in the way I filter and process what is happening.

Good luck with your session tomorrow. Are you taking your drawings?
thanks PB i always take them they are in my T journal that i write stuff i want to say to her about stuff.don't know if i can show her though.it stays in my T bag.
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