So I am a teenager, a High School Junior. My parents and I are getting into fights about me getting a job, and bringing me to colleges. I know that a crucial part of the college application process is visiting colleges, and getting accustomed to the campus. They say that visiting colleges are a privilege, along with actually going to college. They say, that if I have no job by the time the summer starts, then they will refuse to bring me to colleges, and will start refusing to bring to my mental health counselor and doctors appointments, since I will be 18 in May. I am getting mad, furious, and totally stressed. I am screaming at the top of my lungs to get my point across. I feel like they are hearing nothing that I am saying, and that they are taking away from my college education, and I feel like going to school and getting good grades should be good enough for them. I have even told them in a calm manner my opinions, they still say, "no you need a part time job, and all we are asking is 20 hours a week, were not asking for 50 hours a week." I get mad since, this summer I will have a lot of summer work since I will be going into AP Physics, and Honors English. They are mad since I am on the computer a lot and don't have many friends and don't get too much social, as I think I have serious social anxiety. If anyone could help with my situation that would be great. Thanks!