My T has called me "Lady" a couple of times. That just perplexes and makes me go: It's usually in connection with something nice. Like once I was talking about how awful I am, and his response was, "Lady, you are NOT awful, you are kind and loving and amazing . . ." It was sweet, but I'm still like,

I call my friends "Woman" sometimes, as in, "Woman, you rock!" I never use "Lady."