If you really feel like you're done, you can probably just say it to your t and he'll probably start the ending processus. There will always be issues to work on; we're never done but you can chose to end this round of therapy if you feel you're stuck or if you feel there's not much more to gain from this.
As I explain in another thread, I tried twice to end my therapy and my t twice told be that I was the boss but he felt I could still benefit from therapy. Both time, he asked me at the end of the session if I wanted to stop or to continue, both time I said I wanted to continue. The thought that I was easy money for him crossed my mind but I think he is really caring and honest in his evaluation. And this was confirm last weekend, when he told me we should probably... start to end!
So, if we take for granted that your t is good, he will tell you when he feels you're ready to end, in his opinion. But if you feel you are ready to end (and you're sure you're not running away from something), just say so and I'm sure t will help you to have the better termination for you.
Hope this help a little...
Good luck with it!
Faith
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