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Originally Posted by dolphingirl
Do you ever have "long" silences? They seem to happen often when we meet and they're annoying because I don't know if I am supposed to say something or if she is going to. Sometimes they are along the lines of "maybe sometimes x happens" or "could it be that maybe xyz" right before the silence. I just don't know what to say besides yeah, maybe, or okay. Does anyone else have these? Why are they there and what should I do with them?
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We have long silences, I can hear the clock ticking down to another wasted fee. I guess what you need to work out is if you are comfortable with these silences or do you want to fill them? It could be your T doesn't want to interrupt your thought process or is waiting for you to say something. Could you discuss these silences with your T?
