Feelings aren't right or wrong, the simply....are. There is no such ting as being over sensitive. See if you can get into some counseling. There are some things you don't get over, but need help with. Abuse is a terrible thing. The book, The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans saved my life. Your fears are not irrational. People who say you should "just get over it" don't understand, and make you feel worse. Honor your feelings and get some counseling. You will be glad you did