Hi, I am a 21 year old male and I'm supposed to get married in July this year. First, when I got engaged it was only 4 months into the relationship and I was coming out of a relationship of over a year and then a week after getting dumped I was with this girl. When we started dating it seemed we had so much in common and everything was awesome. Then as soon as I asked her to marry me, things started to change. She didn't like to do the same things anymore and now we just fight and shop for cloths. I don't enjoy either of these activities and many times dread the day cause I am hanging out with her later. I don't feel that's very good and really caught my attention. We have been fighting about 80% of the times we get together for the past 6 months+ and have been engaged for a year, so half the time. I really don't know what's going on, I really care about her and yet I don't feel that we should even be together. She wants cats, I can't for medical reasons. I want to pursue my dreams of a professional golfer and move to a warmer area and she doesn't care for golf and wants to stay close to her family. She is very relgious and I am not so much and she tells me how bad of a person I am for not caring about god if I don't want to go to church when available. The closer the wedding gets the more and more I want out and the more I think about one of my ex's that I broke up with after a 2 1/2 year relationship cause my friends at the time and my dad conviced me to break it off. I enjoyed every moment with her, we never fought and allways had a great time together. I don't know why I ever broke that up and it's making it impossible to figure out what is going on. The relationship I'm in has more issues than any of my previous relationships and yet I'm getting married in this one and all I think about is an ex that I don't think I should have ever broke up with. I'm so confused on what to do. I think I should probably call off the wedding but should I do that and just end the realtionship. Please help. Thanks