Septy, it's the sex difference in perp personalities: First there's personally knowing the victim which women tend to do versus Second, the anonymous internet fishing that men do....
I know there are women perps, I'm so sorry you had one in your life. I'm GLAD you took care of her in therapy!!!! Was it someone you knew? That's the thing I'm looking at. (My perp was my father. He knew me.)

In talking with women who were used by their older brothers, most of the guys deny it ever happened, as adults when their sisters finally have had enough therapy to go confront them....... "Huh, what?"

It just is so hard for me to believe somebody could abuse his little sister for years and have no memory of it..... the sisters sure can't forget...... There's some kind of really bad short in the system. Even if their heads "didn't remember", their bodies sure would.....

I agree, lock them up, whichever gender, and throw away the keys. If somebody finds a cure someday we can revisit the issue. Blaaaaagh. I just don't get it.