Thank you all for the support & words of advice. One thought to add, what makes this a tough situation is that my husband lost his younger brother to an industrial accident in January (19th) and my husband was injured on Feb 4th. While he is grateful he did not die as a result of his injury, he is burdened that he did not and his younger brother did. This has addedto his anxiety, that and the fact he is very "GQ" and this disfigurment makes him feel like a 'mutant' or so he calls himself. He was injured on the railroad & we live in a small railroad town. He is 'famous' due to this injury. The talk of the town for quite a while. We have corporate lawyers & investigators aroound every corner. Hard to trust anyone, including doctors/therapists. The drive to find a good therapist will be 5 hrs each way... but YES, well worth it in the end.