It sounds like you will be better off without him. Does he work? How long have you been married? Depending on where you live, maybe he will have to pay you support? I don't think you should pay his cell phone bill or his hospital bill; but you want to make sure you are doing whatever the law requires, so you really should consult a lawyer. Try to avoid conversing with him to give him fewer opportunities to call you names. I hope someone offers you some good tips on what kind of help is available to you.